GROCERY SHOPPING FROM A DAD’S PERSPECTIVE
Before reading this post, there’s something you need to know: I am a man, and the thoughts that follow are written from a man’s perspective. I say this to establish my credibility. As with most subjects there may be many points of view but at my house, when it comes to shopping for groceries there’s a right way (my way), and a wrong way (I won’t mention names—but she’s my wife).X
Now don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I particularly enjoy shopping for groceries, it’s just that when someone else does it (again, I won’t mention your name, honey), we have unique “challenges” in the areas of time, quantity, and price.
TIME
The Munday-Knightfoot-Ball Theorem teaches us that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. For example, the quickest way to get from the grocery store entrance (Point A) to back home to watch the football game (Point B) is to NOT SHOP AS A COUPLE. I don’t say this lightly—it comes from years of trial and error—but the best way to do the shopping at our house is to let me go alone. I’m faster, more agile, and have a pocket full of coupons that I’m not afraid to use.VARIETY
My wife and I went to school in different states, so perhaps it to be expected that we won’t see eye to eye on some things. Those things are called ‘opinions.’ My first grade teacher (shout out to Ms. Baron, yo!) taught that the opposite of opinion is something called ‘fact.’ At Grandview Elementary, one of the facts we were taught concerned the four basic food groups—Meat, Dairy, Grain, and Fruits & Vegetables. This was a fact; ergo it was the same throughout the entire world. Well, apparently Ms. Baron was wrong. I’m not sure we can blame it on Helen Keller Elementary in Arizona or if my wife picked it up somewhere else along the line, but the food groups my wife subscribes to consist of Gourmet, Expensive, Vegetables, and Things We Will Never Eat.
To illustrate, let’s imagine a planet called Earth. This planet contains literally thousands of types of vegetables, therefore making it impossible for one produce department to stock every single variety. Business-savvy produce managers have discovered however, that displaying a handful of these hard-to-find rarities appeals to customers and makes a market appear more distinctive and enticing. Produce managers and shop owners go to great lengths to obtain these uncommon items. But these exotic novelties are not for sale; they are decorations only. These are the fruits and vegetables my strikingly beautiful wife picks up first. Produce managers in our local stores turn pale when she enters their store, knowing the expensive and arduous process of replacing them will have to be undertaken once again. They turn pale. White as ghosts. Seriously.
PRICE
Soon after our honeymoon, I discovered my wife had a condition she had failed to disclose to me prior to our marriage. It was her vision, particularly when shopping. You see, her eyes are unable to see or recognize an item’s price. The condition isn’t listed on her driver’s license, but it is an illness just the same. Just as someone who is colorblind can’t see certain colors, my wife is apparently powerless to see prices. I’ve pointed to prices on shelves, on price tags, and even on the inordinately high numbers at the bottom of her receipts. Nothing. Zip. Nada. It’s like they’re not even there.X
A recent example occurred just the other day. My wife and I were shopping together (mistake number one) and we stopped in front of the canned tuna where we found three options to choose from. Brand #1 was generic. Brand #2 was a popular national brand guaranteed to not contain dolphin parts. Brand #3 was endorsed by Rachel Ray, Julia Child, and strangely enough, a shirtless Brad Pitt. This brand is so flavorful that it has changed lives. People have been known to cry tears of joy when this tuna is served. And by a stroke of luck involving an in-store special and an amazing coupon I had tucked away in my pocket we would not only get Brand #3 for free, but the store would actually GIVE US MONEY at the check stand.
So which brand did my wife choose? None of them. She marched us back to the fresh seafood deli where she found a selection of hand-fed all-natural tuna raised on a farm in which each individual fish is given a name, birthday parties, and a personal trainer who gives it seven years of tender care before it is finally harvested. A two ounce container of this tuna costs as much as a small car payment. My wife ordered a dozen.
WHAT HAVE WE LEARNED?
The moral of this story is simple—my wife is amazing, in fact brilliant. Compared to her, the sun is a 40-watt bulb. Where millions have failed, she will succeed. If given the choice between her and a 90″ Ultra HD 4K television/Maytag Neptune washer and dryer combination I would choose her. No contest. She’s the best. Just let me do the shopping.
Troy Pattee is a writer, marketer, dad, husband, and comedian (at least he THINKS he’s funny). His career in marketing and advertising started at a large agency in New York, followed by several positions in the Salt Lake City area. He has an MBA, and for six years was president and owner of the number one carpet cleaning company in Utah. His hobbies include racquetball, skiing, mowing the lawn, and shoveling snow. His favorite color is red, and he is a Pisces.
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12 responses to “GROCERY SHOPPING FROM A DAD’S PERSPECTIVE”
Holy Cannoli! Your blog is marked under my favorites. Glad @dadarocks got me to you. Fabulous. Just fabulous. It I weren’t so tired I would be laughing even harder! Cannot wait to visit again.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA Troy, I just re-read this post jff (just for fun) and you are truly hilarious. I LOVE everything about this post! It was particularly fun when I got to the end and I read it again backwards up to the top. “Compared to her, the sun is a 40-watt bulb” and birthday parties for tuna were the BEST! And since Jyl is my sister, this post is even more hilarious since it is all TRUE!!!!!!
This was a hilarious post!!
Thanks Lisa. Appreciate you stopping by!
HAHAHAHAHAHA! This gives me a WHOLE new perspective on the two of you and the tuna paragraph made me snort. The perfect way to spend a few minutes.
P.S. Your theory on time is echoed in this house. My husband can do a week’s worth of grocery shopping in 10 minutes flat if it’s half time.
Thank you, Cecily. It’s good to know that I’m not alone!
Funny. Glad to find another coupon dad out there. Check this out.
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Troy, I did not realize you were such a distinguished blogger. I will be following Dadventurous from now on. Good stuff.
Funny, Troy! But i admit I am much more like Jyl. Store managers can be seen rubbing their hands together when I walk through those automatic doors…